Violet Marwa and her husband dissuaded their daughter from going through Female Genital Mutilation. This birthed a project that has helped over 20 girls escape the ‘cut’ and assisted 13 others to get high school scholarships from well-wishers
Violet Marwa is a teacher at Kigitimo Primay School in Kuria East, Migori county. She teaches Maths, English, Social Studies, Christian Religious Education and Kiswahili. Ordinarily, her work involves attending lessons in the various classes both in lower and upper primary classes.
But she expanded her scope of work in 2013 when her daughter was ready to undergo Female Genital Mutilation (FGM), according to the Kuria traditions. Due to peer pressure, Marwa reveals that her daughter, who was 12 years at the time, was ready for the ‘cut’. But having seen the disadvantages of the ‘cut’ from pupils within the school, Marwa took action.
Community members were busy during the December holidays, ready to usher the young girls into womanhood. Usually, that is the season for FGM and her daughter, together with two others, was ready to undergo the ‘cut’.
“My daughter was 12 years at the time and according to the Kuria tradition, the young girl was now eligible for circumcision. My sister-in-laws daughters had come to visit and they had all attained the age for getting the ‘cut’,” she said.
Marwa said the community was expecting her to take the girls through FGM, but to their surprise she did the opposite. At the time, the mother of three, together with her husband, had built a structure at Kegonga shopping centre with an aim of later settling there. “I, however, had not moved there. So, I moved the four girls to that structure. They stayed there for about three weeks.
At this time, their peers were undergoing female genital mutilation in various parts of Kuria East,” she said. This is how the teacher saved the three girls from the ‘cut’. She, however, says it took much convincing to have them refuse the cut.
They wanted to be like their peers. Traditionally, FGM is viewed as a significant stage in any woman’s life that ushers her to womanhood. Parents in Kuria region, however, complain that such notions have led to school dropouts and early pregnancies in the area. Marwa confined the girls there, providing them with food and other basic needs, until the circumcision season was over.
After seeing that the temporary shelter saved the girls from the ‘cut’, Marwa and her husband decided to extend the then two-roomed house to one large hall. Today, the hall is house to Hope for Girls Project, an initiative that has seen over 20 girls escape the ‘cut’. Thirteen of the girls also received high school scholarships through well-wishers.
By the following year, we had 13 girls in total. At the same time, Marwa and her husband were looking for sponsors to sustain the growing number of FGM survivors. “That was when we got friends who visited from Belgium. They got interested in our initiative and offered to support the girls by paying their school fees. All the girls are in Form Three and have never been cut,” she said.
Since then, the girls have known this as their second home where they settle during the circumcision season. After this, Marwa and her husband decided to turn the rescue centre into a school.
To ensure that the girls do not sneak back to their homes for circumcision, Marwa ensures that the girls are confined to the facility until the end of the season. Marwa said the parents now support the idea since their children are not only escaping FGM, but are also getting education.